Priests of the Organization
If you have worked in HR more than a few hours you come to understand the brevity of your position. Employees and their issues quickly become your issues. As they sit across the desk from you delineating each detail you quickly come to the understanding that many don't seek absolution or understanding. They simply want someone to listen.
Listening is a skill Human Resources employees should be experts at doing. It's more than the occasional head nod of affirmation or the eye contact or verbal cue. Human Resources employees are detectives. We listen to employees and evaluate what is said for compliance issues, harassment issues, relational issues and a host of other items all limiting liability for whatever organization we represent. While we do listen to the employee for their personal and independent issues we walk a tightrope between employee interests and organizational interests. Human Resources is not for the faint of heart.
Listening is such an important and necessary part of the job that I would say its paramount to your success in Human Resources. We become the Priests of the Organization. We listen to the 'confession' of employees daily. Many disclosures are for our ears only. There are times when information disclosed can not be withheld from administration and in those times the employee has to understand that confidentiality ends where organizational liability begins. Our first priority is to the organization as a whole and to the employee second and at times these can be at odds with one another.
Now I don't want to paint a negative image of the HR professional. Many of us are in this career because we truly want to help people. There is an underlying love of people and HR professionals have an uncanny ability to show compassion and grace under extreme pressure. We love what we do! If we didn't we would choose another career path that would be a lot less stressful. We love our jobs and feel that we are truly making a difference in employees' lives.
The door to our inner sanctum is open. The confession booth is empty and we welcome you to come inside. The priests of the organization (i.e. Human Resources) are ready to listen. No judgment will be passed and no 'Hail Mary's' distributed... just advice and authentic compassion given to all.
jamie

